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i bought dis magazine,1 of d articles caught my attention..

WHAT WOMEN WANT

by cindy gallop (she doesnt actually want 2 presume 2 answer it on behalf of all womankind,instead she decided 2 list wat she wants 4 women)

1. i want women 2 overcome da tyranny of Looking for The One  ~ 1 of d best days of my life was d day i stopped ‘Looking 4 d 1′. as women,we r brought up frm birth looking 4 d 1.u knw,d man who will b d luv of our life,whose luv will represent d pinnacle of our lifetime achievement,wit whom we will live happily ever after. well,sum time back, i tot stuff like dis,i cannot describe 2 u d piece of mind ive experienced ever since. no more going 2 every social thinking, ‘will he be there?’ no more scanning a crowded room looking 4 him, no more despondently heading home later bcoz no, once again, he wasnt there. hw many of us emapthised wit Charlotte in Sex n d city when, at d end of yet another fruitless nite out, she said , ‘ive been dating since i was 16-im exhausted-where is he??’    so,im nw 48 n i hvnt met ‘d 1′.these days im a huge fans of on9 dating n goin out wit younger men - dats a whole other story n i continue 2 enjoy d relaxation of goin out socially but never looking for the ONE n when i look around me n see other women dressed up 2 d eyeballs,anxiously scanning d room,i want 2 say ‘NO! dnt do it! juz kick back,relax n hv a gud time! u’ll b so much happier..!
2. i want women never 2 see a man as all the financial strategy they need
3. i want women 2 think long n hard abt getting married b4 they actually do
4. i want women n men 2 b appreciated,valued n respected equally 4 their differences
5. i want women 2 hv confidence in who they r n hw wonderful they r        ~ok, dis 1 really is impossible dream.frm d moment we r born,e’thing abt d world we live in conspires 2 make us feel insecure.women alwiz underestimate hw attractive they r,while men alwiz over estimate. well,every single self-help book dat hs told u 2 luv urself has its rite.people value u at d value u put on urself.when u hv a gud sense of dat value,u project confidence dat makes u extremely an attractive prospect.u also hv a much better sense of wat u will n wont accept n hw u wanna operate. knw who u r, wat u stand 4 n wat u r worth, n watever life throws u,u will knw wat u want n wat u need 2 do abt it..    as Henry Ford once said “whether u think u can or u cant,u r probably rite”

erm, i read d articles a few times..n by reading it over n over again,i find there r partial truth out of it.1st time reading dis article,ive concluded dat she (d writer) has been too modernized n d feminism issue r still wrecking her.i was once a feminist as well but later then i find dat god has created man n n woman equally different. in dis developed world,wat is most important 4 woman is 2 b independent n adaptable..if u manage 2 acquaint wit da standards,there shudnt b problems for woman 2 successfully move forward.

wat i like abt d article most is, her point no.5.. she is totally rite abt it. 110% correct!! for all woman out there, plz read n listen 2 wat she says (i mean point no.5 la). apply it in u n u’ll find da truth of it speaks louder than u ever tot. hv confidence in urself n u’ll definitely knw hw wonderful u r! =)

cheers..

light up ur life!

who is cindy gallop?? she grew up in brunei n has spent 23 yrs working in brand marketing n advertising.she is an entrepreneur n consultant,living in NY n working on her own start up venture. (i wud only share da gud part abt her wit u guys..yg buruk2 tu xyah la citer eyh..dier kn prempuan modern.phm2 je la..)

dlm umah aku ade 2 org name amirul. amirul besa ngan amirul kecik..

amirul besar br abes pmr. erm,maka brmula la satu episod baru where by aku akn pening kpale pk mcm mana nk kontrol amirul besa ni.

abes je pmr die da ckp nk g maen dota ngan kengkwn kt CC. erm,aku fhm maen dota mmg best esp kalo maen kt CC sbb aku n kengkwn aku pn suke maen game tu ms kt kolej amin dulu.dieorg lg la dasat.maen smpai kol 4-5 am..
so,aku pn bg la die g CC tp dgn syarat ‘at ur own cost’ haha

alkesah,yg paling aku x tahan skali is part die n gf die.dulu aku suh die stop jap ngan gf die sbb nk suh fokus kt pmr.da abes pmr ni,aku kate pndai2 la kwn.jgn lebey2.kalo nk lebey2,aku bg die kawen je,senang.. (gosh!! i sound like my mom!!! hee..)

td mase aku tgh sembang2 ngan syalin,tetibe die masuk bilik.. ’syalin,kuar jap..abg ayim nk smbg ngan kkida’

prob die ialah gf die..hik! die srabut gf die control die.x bg die hang out ngan kengkwn,x bg die kwn ngan gals laen. pastu gf die bengang2 kt die kalo die g comment kt myspace dak pompuan laen. saket prut aku gelakkn die..

amirul besa alwiz btau aku die nk jd a loyal guy..’one woman guy’.  kengkwn die sume ade couple smpai 2,3 tp die?? he choose 2 b SETIA. its kinda flattering bile die ckp camtu tau..hik! gf die x suke die gurau2 ngan gals laen except dis 1 gal dlm his class..y? sbb she is d only gal yg ignore him. nk jd citer,rupenye dis gal ade deep crush on him..n so does he!

cinta bdk skola sgt kn? hee.. erm,kalo dulu ms kite form 3,parents kite mrh gile2 x bg brcinta time skola.skang nih parents r more open..yela,malaysia kn da maju..ahaks! nway,back to cinta amirul.

so,he asked my advice. lame gak la aku diam sbb cube pk kalo aku kt tmpt die,ape aku wat.. aku pk.. aku pk.. aku pk..

then aku ckp kt die,nnt lah bg aku ms nk pk..aku pn duk dpn pc, ‘click’ write blog..

haha! then how?? i also dunno wat 2 advice..korg tau??

ive been listening 2 all da soundtracks 4 quite sumtime already without knowing ape cite sbena behind those luvly songs..3 days ago i watched da muvee. best!!

karya asal habiburrahman El shirazy..aku blum lagi baca buku die tp according to da readers, book is like 10 times unspeakable than da muvee.i’ll try 2 find time 2 read it after dis..buku die ade je kt umah cuma x trgrak ati nk bace.plus,i’m not da type of person yg baca novel cinta.. it is so not me! =)

ape yg menarik dlm cite ni ialah betapa lembutnye hati seorg lelaki n betapa indahnye budi pekerti die sbg seorg muslim.. aku jatuh cinta dgn watak Fahri krn taat setia die pd Allah dan rasul,kecintaan die pd Islam n also pd cara die meletakkn darjat seorg wanita - penuh kehormatn. instead of looking 4 sum1 yg tall-dark-hensem or baik-caring-luving (hee!), it makes me realize sbenanye agama la yg membntuk nilai lelaki yg baik.measurement nye yg sbena adlh pegangn agame die..

mcm mane prempuan2 dlm cite 2 cair ngan fahri,same goes happen to my heart.trus mlm tu tdo,tringat kt fahri..ahaks! i juz wish Allah temukn aku dgn org yg mcm tu.mungkin xkn ade yg perfect,but still i cn hope 4 sum1 yg close 2 perfect..hihi aku prcaye gud gals r meant 4 gud guys.. cumenye definisi GOOD tu adalah sgt subjektif.aku serahkn slebihnye pd yg Maha Esa..

so,Fahri tu adalah cth plg dkat dgn kesempurnaan..a gud benchmark then! hihi

desir pasir di padang tandus
segersang pemikiran hati
terkisah ku di antara cinta yang rumit

bila keyakinanku datang
kasih bukan sekadar cinta
pengorbanan cinta yang agung ku pertaruhkan
maafkan bila ku tak sempurna
cinta ini tak mungkin ku cegah
ayat-ayat cinta bercerita

cintaku padamu
bila bahagia mulai menyentuh
seakan ku bisa hidup lebih lama
namun harus ku tinggalkan cinta
ketika ku bersujud

bila keyakinanku datang
kasih bukan sekedar cinta
pengorbanan cinta yang agung
ku pertaruhkan

ketika ku bersujud

ade org ckp sy da jiwang lpas tgk cite ni.. mane ade la,awk.. =)