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i bought dis magazine,1 of d articles caught my attention..

WHAT WOMEN WANT

by cindy gallop (she doesnt actually want 2 presume 2 answer it on behalf of all womankind,instead she decided 2 list wat she wants 4 women)

1. i want women 2 overcome da tyranny of Looking for The One  ~ 1 of d best days of my life was d day i stopped ‘Looking 4 d 1′. as women,we r brought up frm birth looking 4 d 1.u knw,d man who will b d luv of our life,whose luv will represent d pinnacle of our lifetime achievement,wit whom we will live happily ever after. well,sum time back, i tot stuff like dis,i cannot describe 2 u d piece of mind ive experienced ever since. no more going 2 every social thinking, ‘will he be there?’ no more scanning a crowded room looking 4 him, no more despondently heading home later bcoz no, once again, he wasnt there. hw many of us emapthised wit Charlotte in Sex n d city when, at d end of yet another fruitless nite out, she said , ‘ive been dating since i was 16-im exhausted-where is he??’    so,im nw 48 n i hvnt met ‘d 1′.these days im a huge fans of on9 dating n goin out wit younger men - dats a whole other story n i continue 2 enjoy d relaxation of goin out socially but never looking for the ONE n when i look around me n see other women dressed up 2 d eyeballs,anxiously scanning d room,i want 2 say ‘NO! dnt do it! juz kick back,relax n hv a gud time! u’ll b so much happier..!
2. i want women never 2 see a man as all the financial strategy they need
3. i want women 2 think long n hard abt getting married b4 they actually do
4. i want women n men 2 b appreciated,valued n respected equally 4 their differences
5. i want women 2 hv confidence in who they r n hw wonderful they r        ~ok, dis 1 really is impossible dream.frm d moment we r born,e’thing abt d world we live in conspires 2 make us feel insecure.women alwiz underestimate hw attractive they r,while men alwiz over estimate. well,every single self-help book dat hs told u 2 luv urself has its rite.people value u at d value u put on urself.when u hv a gud sense of dat value,u project confidence dat makes u extremely an attractive prospect.u also hv a much better sense of wat u will n wont accept n hw u wanna operate. knw who u r, wat u stand 4 n wat u r worth, n watever life throws u,u will knw wat u want n wat u need 2 do abt it..    as Henry Ford once said “whether u think u can or u cant,u r probably rite”

erm, i read d articles a few times..n by reading it over n over again,i find there r partial truth out of it.1st time reading dis article,ive concluded dat she (d writer) has been too modernized n d feminism issue r still wrecking her.i was once a feminist as well but later then i find dat god has created man n n woman equally different. in dis developed world,wat is most important 4 woman is 2 b independent n adaptable..if u manage 2 acquaint wit da standards,there shudnt b problems for woman 2 successfully move forward.

wat i like abt d article most is, her point no.5.. she is totally rite abt it. 110% correct!! for all woman out there, plz read n listen 2 wat she says (i mean point no.5 la). apply it in u n u’ll find da truth of it speaks louder than u ever tot. hv confidence in urself n u’ll definitely knw hw wonderful u r! =)

cheers..

light up ur life!

who is cindy gallop?? she grew up in brunei n has spent 23 yrs working in brand marketing n advertising.she is an entrepreneur n consultant,living in NY n working on her own start up venture. (i wud only share da gud part abt her wit u guys..yg buruk2 tu xyah la citer eyh..dier kn prempuan modern.phm2 je la..)